tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52818520029800747682024-03-13T11:20:29.972+01:00Ma Parole!Musings on life in rural France from an ex-pat estate agentHolt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-27605614824584188632012-12-20T09:44:00.001+01:002013-01-03T16:50:56.838+01:00Renewed renovation<div style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">
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Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-91642596153824324672012-12-19T11:31:00.000+01:002012-12-19T11:31:16.152+01:00So where have I been lately?Those of you kind enough to follow my ramblings so far will no doubt have noticed my prolonged absence.<br />
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Well, it's been an interesting few months. Having very nearly finished creating our beautiful dream house, it began to dawn on us that it really was too big and too difficult to manage. With regret, we decided it was time to move on. We were somewhat caught on the hop when some buyers turned up in early summer and the deal was done.<br />
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We therefore had several hectic weeks of trying to find a new house, negotiating furiously once we did, and at the same time struggling with the logistical problem of packing up a vast 300m2 house and squeezing what we could into the very much smaller new house.<br />
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An added complication was that the new house wasn't immediately habitable, so we took a rented house for a couple of months. Therefore, the packing up involved deciding whether things should go to the rental, to the new house, or into storage at a barn belonging to some very kind friends who agreed to help us out.<br />
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Sorting all this out while still keeping an eye on the normal daily business and household tasks proved quite a challenge, but we got there in the end.<br />
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So now we have a whole new wreck to tackle. Details of the first stage will be with you soon. Meantime, nostalgically, here is how the first big project ended up.<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-534552253153720422012-05-09T08:32:00.000+02:002012-05-09T10:29:09.130+02:00Vous Voyez Ce Que Je Veux Dire?This phrase is a bit of a <i>bête noir</i> for me, know what I mean? A couple of years ago, I had a client who had the irritating verbal tic of repeating his every point at least a half dozen times and then rounding it all off with this phrase. At first, I thought it was because I was foreign and therefore evidently thick as a plank, but after a while I realised he didn't really know he was doing it, so I became more relaxed about it.<br />
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My main issue with the phrase, though, is that I have never managed to <i>say</i> it without virtually swallowing my tongue in the process. Properly uttered, it should come out as an elegant whole and sound something like "V' v'yez sk'j'vuddire". I can't seem to manage successfully the transition from "sk" to "je" to "v".<br />
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I wished badly for it this week though. I returned from an appointment one morning to find hubby waving a bit of paper with a phone number on it and saying could I phone this person back because he hadn't been able to follow what she wanted. The ensuing call with a clearly elderly person proceeded along the lines of:<br />
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"Hello, this is Zoe Holt ... you wanted to talk to me"<br />
"Yes. Are you the one with a house for sale?"<br />
"Well yes, Madame; I am an estate agent; I have many houses for sale"<br />
"Can you tell me where it is?"<br />
"I need to know which house you are talking about ... do you have a reference number?"<br />
"It's in La Souterraine"<br />
"Yes, but do you have a reference? Or perhaps a price, to help me know which one it is?"<br />
"I just want to know the address"<br />
"But I don't know which house you mean"<br />
"Oh, well, if you don't want to tell me the address ..."<br />
"It's not that I don't want to, but I cannot tell which house you are referring to unless you can give me some more information"<br />
"It says here it has an entrance hall, living room, kitchen, 3 bedrooms ..."<br />
"Hmmm, but I have many houses like that: I need something to help me identify it"<br />
"It's 176,000 euros"<br />
"I don't think I have anything in La Souterraine for that price right now - is there a reference number?"<br />
"The reference is xxxxx"<br />
" Ah, that number is not one of my references. Have you perhaps got the wrong agent?"<br />
"I just want to know where it is"<br />
"I can't tell you where it is if I don't know what house it is. I think you may have called the wrong agent"<br />
"It says here [repeats entire house description again] and Orpi"<br />
"Right! [with relief] The house is for sale with Orpi agency. You are talking to Holt. The house is not one of mine. I don't know this house."<br />
"I just want to know the address"<br />
"It isn't for sale with me; it's for sale with Orpi. You must ring Orpi"<br />
"Ah well, it's not for me anyway. If you won't tell me the address, I'll have to get him to ring you .... "<br />
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A few days later, I answered to phone to a much younger man:<br />
"Hello, I'm enquring about a house you have for sale in La Souterraine"<br />
" Very good, Monsieur ... do you have a reference?"<br />
"I'm not sure what the reference is, but it's 176,000 euros"<br />
"Ah ... did someone else call me about this some days ago?"<br />
"Yes, but I want to know the address"<br />
"I believe you have the wrong agency and this is not one of my houses. I think the house is for sale with Orpi? I am Holt Immo"<br />
"Oh, well, OK, but can you just tell me the address ..."<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-19683152223753126652012-05-04T15:34:00.000+02:002012-05-04T15:34:11.868+02:00A Fruitless but Fascinating Afternoon<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This week, I had to make a visit to the central tax office in our nearest city, Limoges. Not to do anything mundane like paying or enquiring about taxes, but to search out the answer to a particularly odd property question.<br />
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This story started when I had an offer on a house a couple of weeks ago. Good news, except that when I started preparing the sale contract, it emerged that there was an issue with the ownership of the correct plots of land. In France, every bit of land is mapped on a cadastral plan and the entire history of each plot is theoretically available to all at the tax office. For the past few years, all the plans have also been available on-line. For the most part, it's a marvellous system and works very well, but anomalies do arise.<br />
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In this case, a very small village house with a little back garden is for some reason divided down the middle into two plots, but only one of these plots has ever been mentioned in the last three sales deeds. It is obvious from reading these old deeds, that everyone concerned in the various sales and purchases <i>thought</i> they were selling/buying the whole house (well, you wouldn't buy half a house, would you?), but in fact they weren't. So, I needed to investigate what was going on with the second plot, and a very interesting process it turned out to be.<br />
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The first woman I dealt with, although extremely pleasant, didn't come across as exactly fizzing with intelligence and was pretty quickly at the end of her resources, so passed me over to someone more senior. This woman was a lovely, able and funny person and we spent a pleasurable couple of hours trying to solve the mystery together. In the process, I was admitted through doors marked "NOTAIRES AND GEOMETRES ONLY" (the French love to surround themselves with regulation and then conveniently ignore most of it).<br />
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We ended up on our knees in a basement, sifting through sheaves of the original plans, hand-drawn and notated with exqusite precision. When she started talking about referring to the Napoleonic plans, attractive though that prospect was to a history buff like me, I had to admit that I didn't think it would take us any further. I think she was as disappointed as I at calling the adventure to a halt, but we had found as much as we were likely to. <br />
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I didn't really resolve my problem, though I now have a lot more information and a theory as to what has happened, but the experience was well worth a lost afternoon.Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-91162306652083247642012-03-30T12:25:00.000+02:002012-03-30T13:17:58.393+02:00Lingua FrancaWe all know Brits are rubbish at languages; it's a national characteristic. People blame antiquated foreign-language teaching methods, laziness, lack of will, lack of necessity when all the world understands English, Empire, island isolationism, and probably a hundred other factors. You know what? I think it comes down to sheer embarrassment.<br />
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Fairly obviously, one of the major features of living in a foreign land is the need to get by in a foreign language. I long ago resigned myself to the fact that I came at it too late in life and will never become utterly fluent and relaxed in French. Still, by dint of hard work and necessity, I have become pretty competent. By far the biggest hurdle to overcome was my wish to avoid errors at any cost. This can easily lead to saying nothing rather than exposing one's ignorance.<br />
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<i>“Into the face of the young man who sat on the terrace of the Hotel
Magnifique at Cannes there had crept a look of furtive shame, the shifty
hangdog look which announces that an Englishman is about to speak
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I have a very dear friend who is Dutch. The Dutch, as we all know, speak every European language "effortlessly". When I first met this friend, we holidayed a lot together and I had plenty of opportunity to marvel at her facility in English (near perfect), German and French. She will happily engage strangers in long, complicated discussions on almost any subject. As my French has improved over the years, I have come to realise that hers is in fact not brilliant; nowadays she often relies upon me to do the understanding bits. Inspite of this, she is still the more chatty, partly because that is her nature, but mainly because she has no qualms about mistakes but ploughs on regardless.<br />
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Which brings me to my point: if someone says to me "Do you speak French?", I'll reply along the lines of "After a fashion" or "I get by", or "Not really, but I try". Whereas, the large numbers of French people who know about a dozen words of English seem utterly convinced that they do, indeed, speak English, and are all too ready to demonstrate this fact. This leads to many tortuous conversations where the other party insists upon struggling manfully to communicate with their dozen words, when it is patently clear that sticking to French would be far more productive.<br />
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Doctors seem particularly afflicted by this syndrome. When my son was very young, he had various minor complaints which led to numerous referrals to paediatricians and the like. So many times, I have sat across the desk from some medical specialist who, the second he hears my accent, lapses into a strangled pidgin English which makes little, if any, sense. I usually respond to this by merely continuing to speak French, in the hope they will get the hint, when really all I want to do is scream at them "For Goodness' sake, speak properly, man!"<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-11864370674472660612012-03-12T15:21:00.001+01:002012-03-12T15:21:42.816+01:00Extended absenceGood grief; the whole month of February seems to have passed me by!<br />
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It's truly a wonder how time slips away in this life I lead - there are always so many different things needing my attention and the days pass in a flash.<br />
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This time around, the weather is much to blame for my lengthy absence from the outside world. There we were in early February, congratulating ourselves on nearing the end of what had been an exceptionally mild winter, when BAM! in came the snow and the ice and the lowest temperatures since the Ice Age. It was quite a shock, I can tell you. The snow was only average, to be fair, but the extreme temperatures plus a daily bit of afternoon sun meant that it melted and re-froze for days into a very dangerous road surface.<br />
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Once we had got past the let's-build-a-snowman stage, it all became a bit tedious. Many of my clients whose houses are empty were naturally concerned about possible plumbing problems, and were ringing to ask my help. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to do much: the roads were too dicey to get to many of these houses, and in any case there is not much one can do while the freeze is still on, since leaks won't normally become evident until the thaw.<br />
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This all lasted for only a couple of weeks, which as winters go is
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renovations, recorded a temperature of -23°c one night. Chilly!!! Thankfully, though, it passed over soon enough and one day we awoke to a proper Spring morning, with sun and birdsong to cheer us all. A couple of days later, we had 18°c on our patio in the afternoon, and it has been pretty balmy ever since, with some really warm days and Spring galloping on apace.<br />
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Then I was struck low with an odd form of laryngitis which seemed resistant to all treatment; I kept thinking it was gone but then finding it back again with a vengeance. During this, I was barely functioning at the most essential level, let alone having the energy for blogging.<br />
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So, all in all, I have been very lax, for which I apologise. But I am back now and ensuring things are brought up to date.Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-55481344350268471072012-01-25T15:57:00.005+01:002012-01-25T15:57:47.389+01:00What Colour Are Yours?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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One aspect of French life which I really have embraced with full enthusiasm is the window shutter. What on Earth are we Brits doing, persisting with our impractical, outward-opening windows and leaving them all naked like we do? Having seen the light, I can only marvel at our national ignorance on this issue. Shutters are not merely pretty and a chance to play around with different paint colours; they offer a gamut of benefits which I have now come to appreciate in full.<br />
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The shutter is a marvellous asset for many reasons. Firstly and primarily, they offer protection from the intense heat of the summer sun. When it is really hot here, the trick is to leave all windows and shutters firmly closed when the sun is on them and then open everything up once the sun disappears for the day. In this way, the stone houses can be kept bearably cool. Equally, closed shutters are good protection from the worst of the winter weather, as they create a sort of primitive double glazing effect. Another benefit is that you can have windows open and shutters closed as a way of letting in air yet keeping out rain or light. They protect not only the inhabitants but also the windows themselves from the harshness of both summer and winter weather: I see all the time ancient houses with the original oak windows still in place and still sound and solid.<br />
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Where there are shutters, there have to be inward-opening windows, which makes much more sense, as they can all be easily accessed for cleaning. This arrangement also allows them to be hung on lift-off hinges, so if they need painting or if you ever have to replace a pane, you simply take the whole thing off and carry it out to the garage (or off to the glass-cutter) for the necessary work.<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-35043897456879204312012-01-16T15:43:00.000+01:002012-01-16T15:43:04.627+01:00The House: The Principal PlayersWe finally had the house in our possession, but in could in no wise be considered habitable. By this stage, I was so heartily sick of the gloomy place where we had been living, that I laid down a deadline of three weeks before I would be in residence. Enter our motley but trusty crew who saw us through this initial "it has to get worse before it can get better" stage: our two leading men, ably and not so ably supported by a random selection of gophers, labourers, passing vagrants, visiting friends and family.<br />
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First and most definitely foremost comes Alain, our heating engineeer/plumber extraordinaire and general Mr Fixit. Alain had already saved our bacon in our previous house, by rectifying some hopeless work done by a rank cowboy (whom we sued). He was a compact, wiry and ruggedly handsome chap, with a sweep of white hair and a very French, bushy black moustache. He would cheerfully turn his hand to any job needing doing, could think of ways around problems and understood the need to economise where possible, all qualities of extreme rarity and value.<br />
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Alain was always accompanied on site by Mrs Alain and three or four of the junior Alains, who all looked identical and thus put us in mind of a set of Russian dolls. Although we came to know the family quite well over the years, we never could work out exactly how many juniors there were. Mrs Alain had a penchant for extremely short skirts and high heels (not too practical as work-wear) and not a tooth in her head.<br />
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Since the purchase had been so badly delayed, we had had plenty of time to sort out all the necessary planning permissions, so as soon as the papers were signed, the gang went at it: ripping out floors, digging up the garden for the septic tank, bashing new doors and windows in the half-metre thick walls. By the time I moved in with eight-month-old babe (hubby had artfully arranged to be away in the UK at the time), we had one freshly painted and reasonably orderly room (later to become my son's bedroom) in which we put our beds, settee, fridge, microwave, etc, and an adjacent half-built bathroom with a loo and washbasin with cold water only.<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-1056075855073006852012-01-14T22:53:00.000+01:002012-01-15T00:00:19.762+01:00La Creuse: Heart of Oak and StoneRecently, a field close to my home was re-fenced; nothing very startling about that. Except that it is a pretty big field - at a guess approx 1km around its perimeter - and the entire job was completed without any sort of machinery by a couple who look to be well into their eighties. I have to drive past this field every day and for weeks I saw them laying out the posts, banging them in to the rocky ground, stretching the four rows of wire straight and finally trimming the top of each post at an angle to delay rot. This sort of sight is not unusual here: people continue to do manual labour to a very advanced age and even those who have sadly had to move to a retirement home still pop out for a brisk march up the nearest steep hill every day.<br />
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This land has bred a hardy and insular people. The Creusois are tough, self-sufficient and long-lived. They consider themselves Creusois first and French second. Indeed, there are still certain aged folk in the deep countryside who do not even speak French, but only the ancient "langue d'oc", which was spoken here before modern France was formed.<br />
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Creuse has never been awash with natural resources, but it does have extensive supplies of granite. The traditional trade of the men here was stonemasonry and associated building skills. Having learned their trade on the unforgiving local granite, the Creusois masons could handle other stone with ease. From the 17th Century onwards, reaching a peak during Napoleon's ambitious rebuilding of France, almost the entire male population of Creuse would leave in Spring to trek the 400 or so kilometres to Paris and other cities. They would spend the Summer working on those great building projects and then return to their families in the Autumn, when the shorter days and freezing weather closed down the building sites. It is often said that Paris was built by the Creusois.<br />
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They travelled on foot, and had to watch out not only for gangs of thieves on the roads but also for the gendarmes, who could arrest any man who could not produce the correct papers. Only the most basic, if any, accommodation and food were available, and they arrived to arduous working conditions, even poorer accommodation and the scorn of the city-dwellers, to whom they were ignorant <i>paysans</i>. The Creusois mason was famed for being able to work longer, harder and on less food than any other and for this and his skill was much sought after. In this way, the men earned just enough to see their families through the winter without starving.<br />
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<br />Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-33175759155469793192012-01-05T16:01:00.001+01:002012-01-26T11:00:03.526+01:00The House: Part IAs part of this blog, I'll be creating a serialised history of our love/hate affair with our home. We bought our current house 8 years ago, at which time it consisted of walls, roof, a baffling labyrinth of rooms and external doors but no internal connections, and a field of chest-high grass. Two of the rooms had been occupied as living space up until approximately 50 years previously, the remainder were rammed from (mostly rotten) floor to ceiling with obsolete furniture, machinery and assorted junk.<br />
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We fell in love with the location (3 minutes from our office) and the extraordinary views ... there wasn't an awful lot else <i>to</i> fall in love with.<br />
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Well, the first step was to buy the sleeping beauty. Actually, we hadn't really intended to sell our previous house: we had started our business in April that year and I had set up what was in those days a very swish website. The only problem was, we had a sum total of five houses on our books to sell. So, to pad it out a bit, we stuck our own on there as well. Then we made the mistake of letting one of our customers see inside it. In spite of our strenuous efforts to sell him something else, he point blank refused to be deflected from ours and before we knew it, contracts were signed. This was in May. He wanted to be in for summer and I was expecting our baby in September.<br />
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Unfortunately, the house we were to buy was part of an estate in liquidation, so the sale needed to be approved by a judge and would take longer than usual. Then events took over and I started having serious complications with the pregnancy. I was hospitalised and the baby delivered by emergency c-section on 6th August. During the month I was in hospital, we became homeless. Babe and I eventually emerged from hospital to a local gite which hubby had managed to rent.<br />
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The gite was pretty basic and all our belongings were in storage, but the notaire assured us it should be sorted out within a couple of months, so we felt we could bear it. However, September passed to October, November, and we were still there, with woefully inadequate heating and water pouring under the front door every time it rained.<br />
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I have to say, it was far from ideal introduction to motherhood. After a long, miserable winter, we eventually got the purchase completed at the end of March. Then the real fun started!<br />
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There was an article in last Sunday's
Observer about the difference in attitudes to parenting between the
UK and France. To summarise grossly, it concluded that French mothers
are much stricter, much less “touchy, feely” and have no problem
with offering the odd slap on the bottom for misdemeanours and that
this produces far better-mannered children. In fact, I felt the
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Parisienne, Bourgoise<i> mamans</i> rather then French mothers in
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I think perhaps there was a point
missed in the writing, about the wider aspect of society's attitudes
towards child-rearing and education. In Britain, I would say that
those of us striving to be good parents/educators have an overall aim
of producing an independent, thoughtful, considerate, creative,
thinking, fully-functioning and fulfilled human being. We hope also
that our schools have similar aims. The aim of most French
child-rearers, on the other hand, is to produce an excellent cog in
the great machine that is La France: too much individualism or free
thinking will scupper this and so is largely discouraged. The result
is a nation whose young people are in the main disciplined,
regimented and well-mannered in the public eye but tend towards
resentment and excesses behind closed doors, and an adult population
apparently terrified of using any initiative or in any way standing
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Which brings me to the title of this
post:<i> liberté, égalité, fraternité</i>, that great rallying call of the
French Republic. Sounds great, doesn't it? But what if the <i>égalité</i>/equality becomes not a right but an obligation? What if your
duty as a Good Citizen is to keep your head down, follow the path of
least resistance, carry out your designated role with little concern
for self-fulfilment and wherever possible avoid any individual
thought/action/responsibility? What if any oddity, quirk or lack of
equality is a fault to be rectified? Then, we begin to enter a “Brave
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My son is eight years old, born and
raised in France. He has difficulties of attention deficit,
Asperger-ish tendencies and a startling maelstrom of a mind which
obsesses over detail, pings in apparently random manner from one
topic to another and constantly challenges and questions all he is
told. Needless to say, he has not found it easy to squeeze into the
rigid behaviour demanded of him by the French schooling system. The
fact that he has largely managed it is, to my mind, a testament to
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Does he behave as impeccably as his
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Is he a fascinating, kind, charming,
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Will he ever allow any body to quell
his stubborn self-belief? I pray not.</div>Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-11364683328397317662011-12-19T23:14:00.001+01:002012-01-03T15:50:20.598+01:00Every Thing in its Season<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As I pass my days driving about the oh-so-beautiful lanes of Creuse, I experience a continually renewed wonder at the immediacy of the seasons here. I've always been an outdoorsy sort of person, but not since I was a student, longing for those wonderful, lazy, library-free days of Summer, have I been so acutely aware of the passing months. Before coming to France, I spent most of my life in the south-east of England, where the seasons go through their cycles in a kind of lacklustre manner and don't seem to impinge very much on daily life.<br />
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How different it is here! Things are rarely grey and boring in these
parts; the weather has a tendency toward the extreme and one is never
allowed to be unaware of the season. In the decade I have lived here, I
have known temperatures as high as 43c and as low as -18c. Thankfully,
both of these were abnormalities, but even so, the range does illustrate
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And each one is a joy: the summer, of course, is wonderful with the
long, long, sunny days, eating outdoors, late afternoons at one of the
many local lakes, the countryside groaning with greenness and everything
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Yet, by late summer, it's all beginning to get a bit too dry and heavy
and the first showers of autumn are a real treat. Many flowers which
disappear in the height of summer re-bloom in September, and coupled
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As winter begins to take over in December, there are stunning frosty
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By March, we are all weary of the cold, so it is viscerally exciting
to notice the buds forming and the first hints of green beginning to
shade-in the landscape. For a while, it is as though everything is
holding its breath and there is a great sense of anticipation in the
air. Then comes a day with a certain balminess in the air and POW! ...it all bursts forth with life. Suddenly, I am again driving about
surrounded by greenery and wild flowers. It's hard to express just how
uplifting this annual renewal is, but the feeling is impossible to
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Then before we know it, <i>les grandes vacances</i> have arrived and everything is once again spooling down towards chestnut time and the smell of woodsmoke in the air.Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-62812937835367214102011-12-16T22:25:00.000+01:002012-01-02T23:11:18.654+01:00The Gallic ShrugI suppose everyone is aware of the infamous Gallic shrug, and unlike many stereotypical characteristics, it not only exists but is an essential tool in the conversational armoury of a French speaker.<br />
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Before I lived in France, I had a concept of the Gallic shrug as a gesture encompassing an attractively laid-back attitude; a wry, "Well, that's just the way things are and it's not worth getting your knickers in a twist about it"; a charming counterpoint to the Anglo-Saxon drive to fix everything. It was <i>laissez-faire</i> and <i>c'est la vie</i> and <i>que sera, sera</i>.<br />
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The shrug is a way of disavowing responsibility. The shrug says "Look, you are not seriously expecting <i>me</i> to try to sort this out for you?". The shrug says "Oh, for goodness' sake, it's five to twelve and I want my lunch and I really can't be bothered to try to find a way around this problem". The shrug says "Please, do not attempt to lay this issue at my door because I am perfectly sure without even thinking about it that it must be somebody else's business and not mine".<br />
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It is a powerful tool and its judicious use can work wonders. When faced with a builder playing dumb about unsatisfactory work, an obstinate shop-worker refusing a refund for faulty goods, a local government official pursing his lips about some trifling irrregularity in his paperwork or similar, there is no mileage in insisting too forcefully on your rights or pointing out the idiocy of their stance. Simply sit back, adopt a polite and rather vague half-smile and then at just the right moment, throw them a shrug. It will, almost without fail, neatly volley the ball out of your court and back into theirs.<br />
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People often remark that life around these parts is "Just like the UK 50 years ago". Perhaps this is no more than sentimental nostalgia, but there is certainly a quaintness to the way some things are done.<br />
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One of the traditions which persists in spite of modern pressures is the statutory noon-to-2pm lunch, which takes some getting used to. Shortly after arriving here, hubby was driving the lanes on some errand or other when he realised he was in need of refreshment and the time was 11.50am. He knew that after noon there would be no shops open, so he pulled over in the next village, where there was a little row of three shops: baker, butcher and small grocer.<br />
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He first tried the baker, where a wizened lady aged about 90 appeared from the back at the sound of the door opening. He asked if she had any ready-made sandwiches. She did not, so he said he would take a baguette and try for some ham or similar in one of the other shops. The lady duly wrapped his bread with painstaking care and wished him a cheery farewell and he bobbed into the butcher next door.<br />
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Again, the shop was empty when he entered, and this time he had a wait of a couple of minutes before there was movement from the back and eventually in shuffled ... the same lady. With ne'er a flicker of recognition in her demeanour, she explained apologetically that she didn't have any ham available. Hubby suggested that he would try the grocer and she agreed this might be a good plan.<br />
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So, into the next shop, where there was also no sign of life. After a slightly longer wait, he was a bit dumbfounded to be greeted once more by the very same old lady. Again, she behaved as though she had never laid eyes on him before, and he had to repeat the entire conversation before obtaining a couple of slices of ham.<br />
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Well, he got his lunch eventually, but you do have to learn not to be in a rush.Holt Immohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05751068783337766127noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281852002980074768.post-70153555549762835132011-12-13T14:24:00.000+01:002011-12-15T12:37:05.178+01:00Foreign FieldsIt's not a straightforward thing to move to a foreign country. It might seem much like moving down the road at first, but then you begin to realise that everything you thought you knew is now turned on its head. In fact, the longer you stay in a foreign land, the more foreign it becomes. It's all rather fascinating but also a bit exhausting.<br />
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A little over ten years ago, my husband and I decided to make the leap; rather naively, as it turned out. Within 18 months of that decision, we had bought and renovated one little village cottage, set up a new business, sold the house, had a baby and bought another house which was huge and consisted of not much more than four good walls and a roof. Along the way, we made a lot of mistakes, had a lot of high times and many low ones, climbed a very steep learning curve and overall just about lived to tell the tale.<br />
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I hope with this blog to create a small window on our experiences and offer some insight into what living in our little corner of France really means.<br />
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